Webster's dictionary-
Ox`y`mo´ron
| n. | 1. | (Rhet.) A figure in which an epithet of a contrary signification is added to a word; e. g.,cruel kindness; laborious idleness. |
If you stand for something, you will be hated. This was true 2000 years ago and it will never change. If you love Jesus and do your best to follow him- YOU WILL BE HATED!!!
Sorry to tell you this- but get used to it!!!