Attitude describes and defines us. It can change and we can change along with it. For the record- I don't consider myself religious; just forgiven. This simple passage from the Bible comes to mind...
Galatians, Chapter 6 (WEB)
14 But far be it from me to boast, except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, through which the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world.
Gary- Read the words of this picture over and over. To be succinct: Read, Learn, Practice- then repeat this over again until Jesus comes!!!